Our love is unexpected. I never saw it coming. I never expected to be in the relationship. Nevertheless, it’s the best relationship ever.
I’m a firm believer of friendship before love, like that Jason Mraz song, “It’s lucky to be in love with my best friend.” Hahahaha. My ex-boyfriends are my ex-best friends. So, usually when a total stranger randomly ask for my number, I escaped from the room.
Cindra is the exception.
When he asked if he can get to know me deeper, I couldn’t say no although I didn’t know anything about him.
After 2 months of getting to know each other, we’re officially boyfriend-girlfriend. Again, not like the others before him, I doubted saying yes to be a girlfriend even after many monthssssss of trying to win my heart.
Right after we started dating, I left for an internship in a different city. I must confess: LDR is one of my biggest weaknesses and I was ready to let this journey end.
I didn’t know how. Cindra can keep me beside him after a year of LDR.
A month after I’m back to Surabaya, exactly 10 minutes after 2017, he proposed. My heart said yes but my brain said are you crazy. I used to have years of relationship but I still didn’t have this faith like I have in Cindra. Just in 15 months, I can say YES to spend my forever with him.
Now, a month before our wedding day, I can tell why we’re so sure of each other. Sure, we’re so different (I’m so emotional and he’s so logical-- never expected to choose this kind of person for the rest of my life), but he always make sure that I get what I want, just like how he let me choose Axioo for our pre-wedding photography, making my high school wedding dream come true. He knew my dream and he made it came true.
Anyway, it was a superb pre-wedding photo session with Will! I’m still thrilled to see the result and the photo album.